Ordinary people. The courage to say NO

قاطعيت، توانايي نشان دادن احساسات، عقايد، افکار و نيازهاي خود بطور مستقيم، آشکار و صادقانه است، در حاليکه ارزش ها و قوانين ديگران مورد حمله قرار نگيرد. قاطعيت به معناي ايستادن روي خواسته هاي خود، نشان دادن مخالفت و عدم موافقت با پديده‌اي و ماندن روي نيازهاي خود بصورت واضح و مشخص است. در قاطعيت تأکيد روي آن است که شما چه احساسي داريد و در نتيجه بايد دنبال يک راه مثبت براي نشان دادن و بروز آن بگرديد، تا اينکه بخواهيد با پرخاشگري و عصبانيت عمل کنيد.

 

‎(Extra)Ordinary people. The courage to say no. The photo was taken in Hamburg in 1936, during the celebrations for the launch of a ship. In the crowd, one person refuses to raise his arm to give the Nazi salute. The man was August Landmesser. He had already been in trouble with the authorities, having been sentenced to two years hard labour for marrying a Jewish woman. We know little else about August Landmesser, except that he had two children. By pure chance, one of his children recognized her father in this photo when it was published in a German newspaper in 1991. How proud she must have been in that moment.

 

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2 thoughts on “Ordinary people. The courage to say NO

  1. مدتی است که این پست را دیده ام اما هر بار که می خواهم کامنتی بذارم یه NO بزرگ میاد تو ذهنم و نمی ذاره بنویسم.

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